Nov
16
i’m pouring my heart out?
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So i am a 8th grader, and i have a internet gf, I have a friend at school i kinda like, my parents ride all the time about having better grades, ect…..i am trying to heep my parents happy, but at the same time i am trying to keep my other school activities balanced, I do not knot what to do, My life is even worse but i can’t say it all( to long) What should i do?? Thx for all the answers.
So i am a 8th grader, and i have a internet gf, I have a friend at school i kinda like, my parents ride all the time about having better grades, ect…..i am trying to heep my parents happy, but at the same time i am trying to keep my other school activities balanced, I do not knot what to do, My life is even worse but i can’t say it all( to long) What should i do?? Thx for all the answers.
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relax…. go outside and have fun
You should spend extra time in English class.
Focus on school. There will be plenty of time for the extra curricular things after you are out.
Grades should come first. You can’t get into college or get a decent job with activities or a internet gf.
slow down buddy! you are way too young!!! you shouldnt be having an internet gf. thats crazy. keep with the girls at school. listen to your parents. you may not know now but they do know whats best for you.
Get a real gf that you can actually be with. Having an internet gf is like having an a-s-s-hole on your left elbow.
HUH????????????????????? And what seems to be the problem?!
Focus on school.
Seriously, too young to worry about managing a relationship, wait till you’re about 34 and you might have a shot at success in that department.
Dont worry about stuff too much. Work hard, do your best, and thats all. Do what you can do, if thats the grades you get doing your best and balancing, well then thats fine. Try not to waste time. Good luck.
just be happy and enjoy life.. you’re too young to get all stressed out.. you’ll have plenty of stress in your life when you get older, so just relax and enjoy being young..
you shouldnt have a internet gf i hope you get to see her if not sorry for you!!!!!!! but i would put off all my worries and quit worrying about what other ppl think and focus on what you think and can do
At certain parts of the day, it’s better to consentrate on one thing at a time. If you can fit more than one thing in your head, congrates because I’m not good at that very often. My parents used to be that way, but they’ve been more conserned with this whole divorce thing. What is it that’s so bad with the rest of your life?
Keeping a balance is a good idea…do your best, whatever it may be, and everything will work out in the long run.
oh your life is so hard do you want a wamburger and some French cries
sound like the regular teenage story…you have to choose between keeping your parents happy or your friends..
I suggest you keep as friends with Miss Internet, ’cause you never know these days. And if you like this friend at school, go for it! Start a study group with her, and talk to her more. She will probably know how to help you more than me anyhow. Talk to you parents too, it might help with the tension. If not, duck your head and concentrate on your grades until they let up, since they probably are the source of the most pressure. Keep your chin up, and good luck!!!
haha…there’s no ‘quick fix’…..im a senior in H.S. and still waiting for things to get better. you just gotta deal with it. middle school ***** so next year will have to be better. lol
this sounds bed, but i just kinda stopped caring about people and started doing what i think is best for me and everything is a lot easier….
your young and need to focus on having fun not girlzzzz…do yourself a favor pick up a hobby and get busy with it. this will cause you less heart pain than what your feeling!!! get a life lil boy…the world shouldn’t revolve around girls at ur age…
hey man i have bad grades too!! but iam a senior and i have to work extra hard! so get your gear together but also remember and realize what is making you get bad grades..??
a online gf?? *** lol go for the girl at your school.
and remember school isnt for everyone for example i love history and learning and exspanding my mind but homework!! lol no way i **** school. i have too many problems too you know. but what i do is I do all my chores put a smile on . get better grades and watch the attitude of your parents shift more positive. things will lighten up. iam having a realll tuff time with money right now. but i have positive friends that get me throught it and keep your head up!
and think about what you can do to fix it.
Your future depends on your scholastic achievements. Unfortunate but true. Try limiting your Internet activities and get better grades. Believe it or not, people had a life before the Internet too and it’s OK not to be the coolest and most hands-on Internet kid in the school. Best wishes for your success.
Above and beyond all what matters most is your grades right now. In ten yrs. you won’t have your internet g.f and maybe even some of your friends too. You are preparing for the future and this is why you parents are riding you so much b.c they care. If you feel so stressed try eliminating some of the act. for now until things get better. I mean your only in 8th grade give yourself a break! Enjoy life and get a good education.
It’s a good thing to be well rounded, but be sure you put your grades at school first. You only get one chance to make the grades. There will be time for everything else, just be sure you don’t overload on extracurricular activities. If something might interfere with your school work, don’t do it. My son, who is 15 does this and it’s a lot less stressful. He chose one sport, and maintains better than B average. We don’t do computer games or video games on school nights and this really helps. Good luck!
Ok, slow down.
You are in 8th grade. Your parents only want the best for you. You have 4 or 5 years left before college and you can make your own decisions.
At your age, your decision making skills are not fully developed because you don’t realize all of the consequences involved and your parents do know.
So, you should listen to your parents. They have made mistakes in which they know how to steer you away from and they also know how to succeed.
I know it doesn’t seem fair but your parents will always be your biggest ally.
So listen to them…
As far as the internet gf? How do you know it’s a girl, who is your age and not some creepy predator? You don’t.
Listen to your parents… Listen to your parents… Listen to your parents…
First, quit being a drama queen, it gets old quick.
Second, ditch the internet *****. I know that it’s fun and all, but you would be amazed at how much time internet relationships can burn. Pretty soon you’ll find that all of your time is spent talking to her (even late into the night), you’re exhausted most of the time, you can concentrate on work/school, and your social life (with other humans in real life) has gone down the toilet. It’s very much an addiction.
Third, start seeing the ***** from school… it’s more fulfilling.
You need to prioritize.
first i want to say be careful with dating on the internet! you are young and never kno who your talking to!!
drop one of your activities till you get your grades up… it may not seem like it now but the stuff you learn in school will help you when your older!
or if you want to keep doin everything, mayb get a tutor on the weekends to help you study for the classes your doin bad at! that way you could still play sports and whatever else you do, and get better grades!!!
good luck! 3
ur education first if u have education u have every thing and u can enjoy ur life when u have better job and u have better job when u have education so focus on ur study first
well i don’t know it’s kinda hard to think abput email me
stop worrying. thngs could be worse. did you take the time to read my last question i posted? i poured my heart out. i vented like crazy. when you can go to my board and check out my question, and you think you have a problem? everyone has problems. they have to learn how to accept that they have a problem, then the fix it, and do the best with what they no how to do. dont try to keep your parents happy. keep you happy. dont live for your parents live for you. you are the only you you got, so take care of that you. to keep other school activities balanced i suggest a planner. jot down and prioritze things and put them in balance so you dont over load and you can spred things out so you can adjust or put more time towards one thing vs putting less time towards another. the key is organization. once you have it and budget your time accordingly, you come into balance. you said your life is worse? i offer you when you want to email me and i will give you feedback on the things you question. does that sound fair? i am a christian too, so, i guess it takes one to know one, and it takes one to help one. since you have limit access usage on your pc go to your local library to chill. while you are ‘chilling’ if you dont want to study and you want to go on the net, that is agr8 place to do it!*