Apr
14
I am torn between my heart and Mind?
Filed Under Marriage Divorce | 12 Comments
Lucy asked:
I am 25 and my parents want me to get married soon.They are looking for a suitable boy for me.Theproblem is that all the persons they choose for me i dont like them. I believe that marriage is a relationship based on love..U sud love a person to marry him..but my parents say that love wil come after marriage..My heart is not willing to accept this while my mind says that ur family is suffering because of u as i have youger sisters after me who have to get married too…All my life i have always wanted a person who wud love me .. who wud be my friend..But in reality all i get to see is quite the opposite..I am petrified of marriage..i dont know what to do..Listern to my heart and wait for the right person and upset my parents more..Or sud i make my parents happy by marrying their choice and break my own heart ?
I am 25 and my parents want me to get married soon.They are looking for a suitable boy for me.Theproblem is that all the persons they choose for me i dont like them. I believe that marriage is a relationship based on love..U sud love a person to marry him..but my parents say that love wil come after marriage..My heart is not willing to accept this while my mind says that ur family is suffering because of u as i have youger sisters after me who have to get married too…All my life i have always wanted a person who wud love me .. who wud be my friend..But in reality all i get to see is quite the opposite..I am petrified of marriage..i dont know what to do..Listern to my heart and wait for the right person and upset my parents more..Or sud i make my parents happy by marrying their choice and break my own heart ?